Topic & Goals

I know that teens act surprised/ socked and depressed when their sexual experience did not turn out the way they thought it would be, even after the experience.
I also know that for some reason it is difficult for them not to make that mistake of smoking and having sex again. They also know the consequences,good and bad, of smoking or having sex before they do it and yet they still do it.

I want to know why they feel and think this way. Do you think I am wrong? Why? Tell me how you feel.

I also would like to understand the view of his topic from male and females point of view because in the cases of relationships the males are sometimes perceived as the bad guys because they broke the females heart or they did not fall "in love" with that one particular female. Females are also perceived as stupid for "falling in love". Are you as females really in love? How do you know?